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Broadcast Number 7e - The School Of Affirmations is In! (Valentine's Day - February 14, 2007)

This evening’s program is the 6th in an 8 part series of programs about Writing Effective and Powerful Affirmations to Making Your Dreams Come True

Tonight's Focus: Valentine's Day - Order Him/Her Up!
Affirmatins, Love and Relationships!


So lets get into it!

On the Website: www.selfimprovementtalkradio.com on the left hand side of the home page or the program page, you will find a link to a pdf formatted master affirmation contract. You are invited to download it and use it as a guide to attract that perfect, loving, lasting relationship that is just right for you!

"What's Love got to Do with It?"
Some people equate love with the sex act. One may say, "I want to make love to you." What they are really saying is that they want to have sex and enjoy the results of the sex act, often without a commitment of a binding lasting relationship. It's just do it, get it over with and move on to the next person or persons. This is simply self-gratification and using another person to one's own ends.

Our Suggestion
Choose to live above and beyond the mere physical sex act and aspire to the higher nature of love as written below. The truth is that the higher level of love incorporates and encourages a loving, lasting, and committed relationship on the part of the partners. The sex act is strengthened and made secure in this bond of mutual respect and trust. "Forsaking all others, I commit myself to you".

The Practicality of LOVE!"

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails...And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love."
1 Corinthians 13, Christian Scriptures

"Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails...But now faith, hope, love, abide these three; but the greatest of these is love."
1 Corinthians 13, Christian Scriptures

How loving are you?

Love Box
Talk about the Love Box - Maureen Fitzgerals in an earlier interview called it the Piggy Bank.
Deposits - Thoughts and actions of kindness
Withdrawals - Write out things that are not so nice and discard in the waste basket. Remember to ask for forgiveness.
Husband and wife try to outdo each other in love– little things mean a lot. (Song)

Women – Refrain from asking questions (you really don’t want to hear the honest answers to) such as:
HONEST QUESTION = HONEST ANSWERS
How old do you think I am?
Am I too fat?
Does this dress make me look fat?
Am I more attractive than Jean?
Do you still love me? etc.

When you ask a question do you really want the truth? Do you want it candy coated or are you prepared to hear the truthful answer.
These questions put a man in a precarious position. He is dammed if he does and dammed if he doesn’t.

VALENTINE’S DAY – Both Happy and Sad

Also Valentines Day can be a very sad time as well. I remember crying most of the day just after Roy passed away. I missed him, his presence AND his presents (the card and flowers) that said to me that he cared and the thought that he would NEVER EVER do that again because he was actually dead.

Cheating Issues
Some people can forgive and some cannot and move on. I always say, if you have really worked to save the marriage or relationship and it is not working and after you have done everything you can, for goodness sake bury the corpse and move on.

LOVE LIES
Stop telling yourself these love lies
I can’t get anyone better
I can’t live without him or her (because that is nonsense YOU CAN!)
We have too much history
Can’t leave because of the kids
I will lose too much money
I can change him or her, etc. etc.
He or she has so much potential if only others could see it

email
Dear Dr. Evers I have a Delimina. My wife Else wants to bring another man into the sexual part of our marriage. He is very insistent about this and I don’t want to lose him, but I cannot seem to wrap my mind around what he is proposing. We have three children, all under 12 and have been married for 15 years. We are also struggling financially. Is there an answer? Peggy

Michael’s Response

Dr. Evers’ Response
I feel it is important to be true to one another and when you make that vow before family, friends and God, he should be honored.


My story
Re: Friends who were into “Swinging” and multiple partners
Years ago when I was married to my first husband I had a situation which could have got out of hand had I not realized what was happening and put a stop to it.
To protect the not so innocent I will call them John & Mary.
Needless to say, John and Mary ended their relationship in divorce shortly thereafter.

As a married couple, ask yourself, "Who are you hanging out at the intersection of your lives?"
"Who are you spending time with?"

Check out their character and ethics!

It is your choice - you can aim for the lower end (Sex, self gratification) or is the Higher End of Spirituality that incorporates sex and raises it to a higher level of experience; the union of “two spirits here”?
Includes both having sex with a loving, caring relationships partner and not using one another.

FIVE (5) specialized Affirmations
Choose which one you wish
1. FOR THE MARRIED COUPLE (or in a committed relationship) for maintaining and increasing that happiness.
2. For SINGLES wanting to attract that special love person into their lives
3. Life After Spousal death
4. Life After Divorce
5. Life after Cheating and Rebuilding.

To read these affirmations,
Download Feb.14, 2007 - Five Valentine's Day Relationship Affirmations
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Affirmation Relationship Tips
When affirming what you want define your relationship.
Affirm for Safety, Openness, Honesty, Transparence, Mutual Trust, and Happiness

OPENNESS
Open communication
Remember those confusing questions, Do you think I look fat in this dress? Do you think I look old? etc.

HONESTY
Don’t use flattery use honest appreciation
Be honest – When you don’t need a good memory

In Relationships
Focus
Create union
Strong team
Mutual Support

Valentine’s Day Affirmation For Attracting Loving Relationship
(Sketch of person you like)
Not picture of actual person (it has to be his or her choice)

"I, (your name) deserve and now have that loving, lasting, happy relationship which turns into marriage. My special person loves, respects and accepts me and I love, respect and accept him or her. We give each other space to live, grow and evolve. We enjoy a long, healthy, prosperous relationship.
We have mutual interests and enjoy happiness, peace and joy. St. Valentine or Cupid knows where this special, most suitable life-partner for me is and brings us together in his own loving way.
We get out of the way and allow this request to be delivered to us by the COSMIC DELIVERY TRUCK. All is to the good of all parties concerned. Thank you Thank you, Thank you!"

I fully Accept
Signed_____________________________
Dated______________________________

Check List 3 P’s Personal, Positive and Present Tense
Magic Words, I, (your name) DESERVE and now have/am
Feeling
Grateful
To the good of all parties concerned
Deserve

The AFFIRMATION RULES
Need to be repeated – Abide by
1. Never hurt or take from anyone
2. Create the Master Affirmation to the good of all parties concerned and this includes you!
3. Have at least a 51% believability factor that the Affirmation can manifest as affirmed.
4. Feel it in your heart and oh yes, Have Fun!

For successful Relationships/marriages Outdo each other with kindness and love!

MEN sometimes frontload their relationships with flattery to get what they want. It is better to use honest appreciation

MEN are always trying to fix things out of the goodness of their hears and a sincere desire to have peace and stability in their relationships/marriages and homes

WOMEN– Need to share and vent not necessarily have the man fix it. They just want the man to just listen. Communication is so important in relationships of any kind

MEN – Do not want to be nagged (especially when they come home from work tired or stressed).

Some Interesting Ideas
If it is not moving you forward, in the direction of your dream, don’t do it. Change your life one new thought and one new action at a time using the 1% solution

On the Rebound
Give yourself enough time
Learn from Previous unhappy relationships
Dr. Joy Brown has the 1 Year rule
You made a promise now keep your promise!

Love Yourself
Have a great affair with yourself
Feel great about yourself where you are, who you are, etc. before you enter into a relationship.
Leave baggage at the door.

Frustration
Are you frustrated in your relationship//Marriage?
Do you have unreal expectations?
Do you expect your partner to solve all your problems?
Do you expect too much of your partner
Do you expect of him or her that no one could accomplish.
Frustration=Great Expectations

Risk Factor
Rejection
Have a Risk Management plan
Have a Back-out Plan that is based on dignity and respect

Initiate a Friendly Love Competition
Compete with each other about who can do the most.
Up the Trust Factor in your marriage
Keep on communicating.
Identify what you want from your partner
Don’t say, "Oh he or she knows what I want or how to please me."
Be specific.

Puppy Love
Get that Puppy Love Feeling back into your relationship. Always be glad to see the other person and let them know it! – Show you’re happy to see them!

FEAR
Do you have a fear of losing?
Losing your money or family inheritance then do a pre-nuptial agreement
Do you fear your family members will not like him or her?
Do you worry about what others will think of you and your special person?

Final Thoughts
Never go t bed angry
Don’t sweat the small stuff
Ask yourself “Is it chatter, does it matter?"
Will this be important to be 1 week, 1 month or to me?
Set reasonable healthy boundaries
Don’t fear the loss of your children’s love. This way they are holding you in hostage.

Next Week February 21, 2007
Affirmations, Family Relationships, Parents, and Children!

Conclusion:

Remember to practice these helpful strategies today and each and every today of your life:

1.a Ask the BIG Question #1: “What is here for me to learn about myself and others, in this current situation that is not immediately apparent to me now?”

1.b Ask the BIG Question #2: “What is here for me to learn about my thought life, in this current situation that is not immediately apparent to me now?”

2. The 1% Solution: Change one thing at a time: do one new action differently and entertain one new thought. Change your life one new action and one new thought at a time.

3. Ask: What is the one thing that I can do differently today to make my experience of Life better?
Declare: The One thing that I can do differently today to make my experience better is _______.
Remember to Follow through

4. Create Your Dream Action Plan: Ask the SIX BASIC QUESTIONS: Who? What? How? Where? When? Why?

5. Ask: Who are you hanging out with at the Intersection of Your Life?
(Dream Supporters? or Dream Stealers?)

6. Be the Cause of Your Life! and Cause the life you want to be!

Until Next Week
Plan for more than you can do then do it.
Bite off more than you can chew then chew it.
Attach your affirmation to a star
Hold on tight and there you are!

Affirmations when properly done, always work.

Inspirational Thoughts

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails...And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love."
1 Corinthians 13, Christian Scriptures

Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails...But now faith, hope, love, abide these three; but the greatest of these is love.
1 Corinthians 13, Christian Scriptures


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and www.kidspower.ca - Kids and Parents learn affirmations together to strengthen the family and family members

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